只想说这样的我一样落入生儿子的烦恼

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2016-06-16 16:19

前阵子，大s生子，很多网友纷纷戏谑求小s心里的阴影面积，甚至有人直接去小s微博留言说你生不出儿子伤心吧。所以你看，尽管我们已经改革开放三十几年了，但以生儿子为荣的心理仍然根深蒂固，连生在新时代的年轻人们，大多也难以幸免。
我，33岁，某网络公司编辑部经理，带领团队成员31人，是社会上所谓的职场精英。这不是为了显摆我多优秀，只想说，这样的我，一样落入生儿子的烦恼。说实话，如果不是国家二胎政策开放，我这辈子拥有我女儿这个贴心小棉袄就已知足，然而很多事情身不由己。国家二胎政策一出，我连不生二胎的借口都没有了（因为我老公是大学老师，政策颁布之前，我们只能生一个）。政策颁布那天，简直可以说是我父母，我公婆人生中最欢天喜地的日子之一，但也是我被二胎绑架的开始。他们争先恐后向我们道喜，并表达了抱孙子的强烈愿望。而身边七大姑八大姨一见到我也是喜笑颜开地说：“这下好了，你们可以生个儿子了”。一个国家政策居然成了我的“喜事”，真真令人哭笑不得。就连我那群受过高等教育的同学们，居然也不少跟我说：“争取再生个儿子，儿女双全，你公婆肯定很高兴。”

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接下来的时间里，可想而知，家里的长辈们，从轮番游说到恼怒成羞直接施以压力。家，已经变成了我的战场，我的地狱，同事们欢呼雀跃的下班时间居然成了我的煎熬时刻。我非常明白再生一个孩子对我意味着什么，意味我熬了三年，好不容易熬到女儿上幼儿园，日子稍微轻松点，又要被另一个娃挤占娃所有的私人空间，不能睡懒觉，不能逛街，不能看电影，不能跟闺蜜打扮美美的喝下午茶……意味着生第一个娃时所有的痛苦又得重新来一遍，还要赔上事业前途。天哪，我才不要！
然而，陆续，很多公众号追随热点，发布各种家有两娃的文章，照片。文字各种暖心，照片各种萌。看着看着，我想起小时候与哥哥家里吵吵闹闹却也开心有爱的日子；想起在外面受欺负了，哥哥挺身而出的伟岸形象，心竟然开始变得柔软。加上身边同事同学们各种怀上二胎消息的传出，渐渐地，竟也会萌动生二胎的冲动。而最终促使我决定再生一个，而且力求生儿子的，不是因为父母公婆的压力，而因为女儿。不知道是家里长辈在孩子面前鼓动，还是女儿自觉孤单，她也经常在我面前说：”妈妈，我们班谁谁的妈妈又生一个弟弟／妹妹了，你也给我生一个陪我玩吧。”有一天，我问女儿：“那你是希望妈妈给你生一个弟弟还是妹妹？”她很坚定地说弟弟。我有点不悦，问：“是不是你爷爷奶奶叫你这么说的？”女儿委屈

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